I knew this day would come but that doesn't make it any easier. If anyone finds any memorial service online, let me know. I didn't know his sons, but one of them was bringing him food during the pandemic from what I understand.
I'm thankful we had so many great times with Itchy. He outlived his wife and kept gaming for quite some time. He even wrote a book with some of the clan members being used as character names. He was a great BBF member and friend to many!
I'm glad I was able to chat with him on the phone during the pandemic and thanked him for being a good friend. He will be missed.
When I met Itchy it was on the test Teamspeak server we hosted for free as a trial server. He would hop on and create a channel called ItchyBuds for his friends and him to use. I'd hop in and chat for a bit, eventually recruiting him to join BBF.
In some ways, he was a father figure to me (and other members I'm sure) because he was older and wise, helping me through a few tough decisions over the years and was always been willing to listen without harsh judgement. Very few people have been able to provide that type of friendship throughout my life and I'll always remember Itchy.
Back when I met him he had a website. I wish I remembered the name so we could check the wayback machine or see if it is still up. Anyone know the URL? He had pictures of himself bowfishing and multiple lines in the water out the back of his boat. Because I grew up fishing we immediately made a connection talking about fish and I was fortunate enough to have gone fishing with him when I visited.
He was a big guy...biggest friend I've had. But that didn't stop him from picking me up, introducing me to his wife, and taking me out fishing. We didn't catch anything spectacular, but it was one of the best days fishing, not because of what we caught, but just being there with him in person in that boat...it was fun! I can still picture that big, rugged, santa claus looking Itchy with his tiny bait fish...I'll go find the picture to post.
Itchy was always willing to help the gaming clan. He was there playing Battlefield with us, never complaining, but always following orders from his younger Game Commander. He had some epic builds in Minecraft too. It would be interesting to pull up some pics of his builds if anyone has some to share. He must have spent more time than any BBF member playing Minecraft.
Anyway...it's a sad day knowing that he is gone. I'll admit...I cried a bit. He was a once in a lifetime type of friend and I wish I could have spent more time with him.
Some pics from 2010:
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